These days, too many men choose to be with a woman—only to realize they don’t actually like what makes her a woman.

What defines a woman, what makes her different from a man, is not just biology. It’s her emotions, her deep capacity for connection, her ability to see through, her sensitivity, her rich inner world. It’s the way she communicates, the way she craves long, meaningful conversations, the way she pushes beyond the surface.

And yet, I’ve met so many men who chase women only to turn around and reject everything that makes them unique. They minimize emotions, dismiss intuition, belittle depth. So what’s the point? If you don’t appreciate any of these traits, you’re only going to make her life miserable.

If you want to be with a woman, truly be with one, you must embrace what makes her special. Stop using childish manipulation tactics to morph her into a version of masculinity you can “handle.”

A real woman—one who deserves the name—will challenge you. She will push you to grow, to expand, to evolve into a man with depth and understanding of what it means to be human. That’s the only way this works.

Anything less is not worth it. Anything less is weakness. Choosing the easy way is choosing nothing at all.

Here’s a 10-question test to help you assess whether you truly like women—or just like the idea of having one around.

Do You Even Like Women? – Take the Crash Test

For each question, answer YES or NO. Be honest with yourself.

1. Do you respect and appreciate a woman’s emotional depth, or do you find it exhausting?
   
2. Do you enjoy deep, meaningful conversations, even when they involve feelings and vulnerability?
   
3. When a woman expresses an intuitive insight, do you take it seriously or dismiss it as overthinking?
   
4. Do you admire a woman’s strength and independence, or do you secretly wish she were more ‘manageable’?
   
5. When she challenges you, do you see it as an opportunity to grow or as an attack on your ego?
   
6. Do you value a woman’s ability to nurture and connect, or do you see it as unnecessary emotional labor?
   
7. Can you handle a woman’s full spectrum of emotions without trying to shut her down or ‘fix’ her?
   
8. Do you believe that a woman’s thoughts, ambitions, and desires are just as important as yours?
   
9. Do you see relationships as partnerships where both evolve, or do you expect her to adapt to your world?
   
10. Would you still want a woman in your life if she couldn’t provide you with sex, food or cleaning the house?

Results

• Mostly YES: Congratulations, you actually like women for who they are—not just for what they can offer you.
  
• Mostly NO: You might like the idea of women, but do you really respect and enjoy what makes them unique? It’s time for you to reflect.
  
• Mixed Answers: There’s room for growth (which is a very diplomatic way to say something else). Are you willing to challenge your own biases and become a better partner? Or should you leave women alone as you recognize that your presence in their lives will intoxicate them?

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Happy Valentine’s Day!

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