NEVER FORGET because here is what happens when you forget…

When I left to travel the world, I had forgotten all about narcissists, I had actually gotten sick of the subject.

Narcissists had showed up in my life quite a long time ago, I had gotten well informed and trained about who they were, how to spot them and became good at getting rid of them, at making all their games fail, so I would make it very clear to them that they were the biggest losers on earth.

I got pretty good at it and then, they stopped showing up.

The pandemic changed or actually deleted most forms of social games for years, then I was on my way to go abroad which created many years without having to deal with them.

And I realize now that, as a very resilient person, idealistic and optimistic, I had just forgotten about them. I stopped watching the videos, I stopped being aware of their existence.

A part of me wanted them not to exist so badly that I kind of thought, unconsciously, that this kind of experience belonged to my past. (mistake = thinking that because you have done some personal development work, some sh*t will stop happening)

So I left my country to travel the world and I was so excited to meet new people on my journey, developing my soul mission, going to my dream places, that I was under the assumption that I was only going to meet my (positive) soulmates everywhere.

And I actually did…

But I forgot that, even though we live beautiful things, the dangers are everywhere these days.

We are NOT always in a safe space socially speaking.

People you meet have sometimes been in such a dark place for a long time, that they are ready to any type of manipulation to get some supply from someone who looks healthier and happier than them and because you look this way, they feel like they can abuse you and you won’t even matter!

There is also some hidden and ferocious jealousy, when people feel like they are failing at what they have intended to do with their lives, which diminishes even more their level of empathy.

So here I am, realizing that I have met some very ugly narcissists alongside my Travel Adventures and some of them have hurt me very badly, and partly because I was wearing my pink colors glasses, because I was traveling to the places I had dreamt of for a very long time…

Here I’m talking about this bias we all have when we travel. We tend to think it will be beautiful in every ways out there, and sometimes it is.

But the dangers are also present there and we have to be careful. Also because we don’t have all the social codes we normally have back home.

Don’t forget that as a traveler, your capacity of discernment,
is by essence, a bit altered.

Positive Social Impact

When we want to enjoy life so much, when we respect everyone, when we tend to believe that each person is a soul connection, when we are heart-centered, sadly we are also, in today’s world, at a very high risk of being abused and manipulated.

I have seen narcissists being so good at entering my dreams and manipulating me from that place, using this understanding of what I was dreaming of to get things out of me. And this is very painful to experience this. It feels like they come to stir you at your core, and it will make you sick.

I don’t even know how a human being can do that, but I think you heal from the consequences of narcissism the day you understand they are not human beings the way you would define one.

So let’s not forget and let’s learn a lesson here.

Lesson learnt: even if you’re in your Dream Travel, Dream Country, there are sharks around you, and the more you glow, the more they will feel that they can steal some of your strengths, energy, skills, and employ any means to get some supply from you without having any loyalty towards you.

So when you go to travel, just be aware of that and always keep an internal guardian that will remind you to be careful and that you should second guess situations and people in a new environment.

Especially when things suddenly look too good and too beautiful, it may mean the wolf is getting something organized for you to fall into a trap.

Glowing positively in such a dark world has to come with being cautious.

Feel free to share your own experiences of Bad Encounters while traveling in the comment sections, it will be my joy to read your shares!

With Love & Adventures,

Emi