An avoidant attachment style is difficult, first for yourself and for others.

It prevents you from having real friendships, a happy romantic relationship, success in jobs and business and it will also hurt your children without you even being aware of it.

You’re not guilty of that pattern, but you’re responsible to heal it and change it.

It comes from childhood – from being able to only rely on yourself, from not finding safety around your carers.

It is a necessity for you to have a look into that inner space – heal that inner child – it’s your responsibility as a father to do this work so the patterns don’t repeat and they stop hurting everyone around you.

As you haven’t experienced safety in your home as a kid you’ve built walls and walls and walls, thinking it was the right thing to do, as life felt dangerous.

But now those walls make you suffocate, they prevent you from experiencing yourself, feel yourself and from feeling what it feels to be who you are, making you live disconnected.

So you need to take those walls down

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It’s a job, it’s not easy but this is the way to go for you now and this is what can turn your entire life around.

I recommend doing hypnosis to start this work as hypnosis will be stronger than the games your conscious mind likes to play and kind of force you to be in contact again with your true self.

I would feel more peace if I knew everyone would start looking into that work and make progress at their own pace.

If you want to keep one thing from finding my blog, keep that and follow this path, even if you don’t feel attracted by it – trust me – this is the way to go.

Until you do this work – you will just run in circles – so there is no point.

Take care,

Emi – Positive Social Impact

If you want support to transform your life for the better, feel free to contact me through the contact form of the website