Men have been shaming themselves all their life about their feelings so now, they don’t know exactly who and where they are. And why is that?

Because emotions are our best indicators in life. Lose contact with your feelings and you’re completely lost.

Many men experience that total numb impression. They can’t reach their depths anymore so from there, how can they know who they love? Who they don’t love? Given that they don’t know how to love themselves first, the road is blocked.

So much confusion in relationships comes from that problem.

Why am I talking about men?

Because while traveling, I’ve met many of them. Adorable people, fun, intelligent, generous, interesting, but I found out that 98% of them were feeling trapped in their life situations.

In different ways every time, but most of them were not sure about who they were and what they were allowed to be and feel in this world because of this lack of capacity to feel who they are.

That vague and uncertain space creates a lot of problems with people around them. Unnecessary dramas and discomfort.

Or not even having the capacity to answer this question: am I with the right person or am I doing the wrong things for my relationship to feel nicer? Could be helpful to know, right?

Compassion and empathy

I’ve felt a deep sensation of empathy and compassion towards them and I’ve spontaneously offered my help.

All of them thanked me, appreciated my advice and my capacity to listen to them. I do not provide generic advice or administrate general truths you see on social media.

To me, every case is different, special and the solutions to improve the situation have to be precise.

All of those men told me that after applying what I told them, their own state of being, their family situation and couple got seriously improved.

A feminine & sensitive point of view

That’s why I want to keep offering support to men who feel like an external, impartial but sensitive and feminine point of view could help them get out of the loop where they are stuck.

Let’s unstuck you by asking the right questions and move forward, step by step.

When we are stuck in life it’s because we can’t see certain things by ourselves.

We don’t know what we don’t know.

This is when it’s time to ask for support.

If you recognize yourself in this situation, book a call with me to discuss your situation and we’ll see how I can support you.

Emi