There was a time when men found some power in not talking.

This silence and the whole mystery that came with it was granting them some power and maybe some seduction with women. Some of them would find this mysterious and attractive.

Then, within the relationship, not talking about anything would prevent them from having some difficult conversations or some problems.

Well, maybe that was a model back in the old days but I think it was related to some old fashioned society and relationship models as well.

Nowadays, being in a relationship, thinking it has a single chance to work with that model in mind is a complete utopia.

Making a relationship work takes times, energy and a lot of communication.

Communicating, talking, is the first thing a couple will be able to do and maybe the last thing as well.

Ruining your chances to have intimacy

A lack of deep and interesting communication in a relationship also ends up cutting the couple from having intimacy.

Making love with a person you don’t share interesting conversations with is a little like rubbing your back against a wall to scratch it. The intensity of it and the interest are equivalent.

But given that human beings are offered extraordinary capacities to self reflect and reflect on themselves together, what the universe expects from us is to use it, as much as we can and the right partner is the one who enables us to experience that.

Deep conversations are the highest form of intimacy two people can share

Positive Social Impact

Relationships take skills

Falling in love is easy as it’s a chemical reaction and it even appear in situations where we wouldn’t want it. We don’t choose it and have very limited power over it.

But staying in love is a skill.

If you expand your communications skills within the relationship, you will be able to access the most amazing part of it.

If you want to work on this with me – email me at contact@positive-social-impact.com or by using the contact form – Emi