Old souls (men or women) do not want to be in a relationship just to have a companion; they need a love to grow together.

They are souls who have lived through many past experiences and therefore want to use this incarnation on Earth to evolve, they do not like to waste their time.

Old souls come to this world with a goal, a mission and often think that a love could distract them from the accomplishment of this task, before looking for the love of a couple, they prioritize their personal evolution and the understanding of their mission of Life.

As a love requires a lot of attention and dedication, they end up putting aside the most banal love relationships, unless it is the ideal companion, complementary and close to the goal to be manifested.

In this case, the meeting occurs through Divine Alchemy.

Old souls do not adapt well to conventional encounters, for them it is all very superficial, they like real encounters, people who know each other deeply, show themselves, connect to the soul, and have similar energies.

They see physical love as a sacred act.

Unfortunately, this kind of meetings nowadays are not frequent, people usually talk via apps, dating platforms, and this does not appeal to old souls and increases the difficulty of finding love even if they know that what must be will be.

The old ego thing: “I’ll wait for him to call me, I won’t call” or “I’ll pretend I’m not interested” is something that old souls don’t really like, they don’t put up with characters, they are very sensitive and true, they don’t like posturing, they are transparent, straightforward, with the naked soul and it scares a lot of people.

Old souls don’t meet just anyone, just for company or to fill gaps; if they think the person is not worth it, they don’t even bother, many people end up saying that they are “too demanding”, but the truth is that old souls want someone to share their life with.

They offer themselves and in self-love balance they expect a synergy of the same nature, they decide to bet on someone very special to have by their side otherwise they prefer to be alone.
Old souls have emotional wounds from this life and others, normally these souls are strengthened by experience, but do not find an easy life in this incarnation, they have many challenges to face, some very painful, that’s why they are very careful, because they do not want to suffer anymore, and honor the mutual accompaniment of who knows what each one is going through and what it supposes.

To have a relationship with someone, they need to feel that the person is mature enough to understand their path and evolution.

Old souls need a companion who wants to be by their side, who respects and understands them, they cannot be with people who cheat, possess, or limit them, and only understand the relationship from the freedom.

They know that a relationship can only move forward if there is true communication of the heart, pure understanding between them, dedication and honesty, if their partner does not accompany them to the rhythm or resonate the vibrational frequency itself after trying to serve as a stimulus to the growth of the other, they detect that it is the right time and that it becomes unsuccessful. “

Alejandro Jodorowsky